How To Have Feminist Sex with Flo Perry
This week, Hannah is joined by writer and illustrator Flo Perry, who’s created the book ‘How To Have Feminist Sex’. Flo shares more about the process of making the book, and why she wants women to talk more about seeing sex as a form of joy. Her and Hannah chat about the importance of not judging other people’s kinks, and talking about your masturbation fantasies with your partner. Flo shares her coming out process, including the experience of coming out as a lesbian as a teenager, and then having since come out as bisexual. Finally, they talk about Flo’s club night for queer women & non binary people, and why it’s important to have these spaces.
Read the episode transcript here!
SHOW NOTES
What we chat about…
What is feminist sex?
Seeing sex as a form of joy
Accepting, rather than judging, other people’s kinks
The different names for vaginas
Flo’s illustration work; what’s it like drawing bodies?
The process of creating the ‘How To Have Feminist Sex’ book
Flo’s coming out process, including the experience of coming out as a lesbian as 15, and then later coming out as bisexual
Why Flo felt more constricted with her sexuality when at university
Flo’s queer women and non-binary club night
Why are queer nights so associated with alcohol?
What does Flo want people to get out of the book?
Asking your partner what they masturbate about
Looking at the themes in your own masturbation fantasies
Using sex toys
USEFUL LINKS
Buy Flo’s book’s ‘How To Have Feminist Sex’*: https://amzn.to/33TWVr0
Find out more about Flo’s queer female club night ‘APHRODYKI’: https://aphrodyki.com/
Buy ‘The Vagina Monologues’*: https://amzn.to/2NYvzdV
Find out more about ‘Pxssy Palace’: https://www.facebook.com/PSSYPALACE
Watch ‘Big Mouth’: https://www.netflix.com/gb/title/80117038?source=35
MORE ABOUT FLO PERRY
Flo is a freelance writer and illustrator, who has previously worked at Buzzfeed. She is also the co-founder of London's premier ancient Greek lesbian night Aphrodyki, and gives talks about what feminist sex means in a modern world.
Find out more about Flo on her website, Twitter and Instagram.
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