Sex Parties & First Orgasms with Ruby Rare

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In this episode, Hannah is joined by sex educator Ruby Rare, who shares how her non-monogamous relationship works, and why throuples and sex parties can actually be quite mundane! Ruby also talks about having her Instagram account deleted and why she got banned from Tinder… Her and Hannah discuss not having their first orgasms until they were 20, and whether an orgasm is your responsibility or someone else’s. Finally, they share what they still have to learn about masturbation and ask: what actually is ‘squirt’?

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What we chat about…

How Ruby & Hannah met, and about going to smut slam
Instagram deleting Ruby’s account
Ruby being banned from Tinder
What emoji should you use to mean boobs?
Which dating apps does Ruby use, and how does Ruby date as a couple?
The reaction of Ruby’s family to her non-monogamy
The ‘10 Commandments’ of a relationship and whether agreements in a relationship are too restrictive
Should you be in a non-monogamous relationship from the start?
The mundaneness of being in throuples and of sex parties
Ruby’s experience of going to sex parties with friends
Why Ruby didn’t have sex at the first few sex parties she went too?
Ruby’s experience of having her first orgasm at 20 and why she felt like a fraud
Faking orgasms
Is your orgasm up to you or someone else?
Is your biggest sexual organ really your brain?
Different types of orgasms
The importance of talking about masturbation with friends, and how that helps you learn
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What is squirt?