Fetishes and Role Play with Florence and Reed (Come Curious)
In this episode, Hannah is joined by Florence and Reed, the hosts of the Fucks Given podcast and co-founders of Come Curious, to talk all things fetishes and roleplay! Reed shares about her tickle fetish and her journey with acknowledging and accepting it and being more open about it, as well reducing the shame that she's felt for years because she has a tickle fetish. Florence also talks about her fascination with lactation and how it is such a turn on for her, and whether it’s a kink or a fetish for her. This episode also gets into discussions about consensual non-consent fantasy and roleplay: what that is and, if it's something you're interested in, things to think about to do it safely and in a way that everybody is into.
CW: discussions about consensual non-consent fantasy and roleplay throughout. also emetophobia warning around 17 minutes.
Read the episode transcript here!
What we chat about…
What is Come Curious?
How did Florence and Reed meet?
How do Florence and Reed decide what to share and what not to share? Do they have hard and fast boundaries around it?
Talking to their partners about their limits for what they share on the podcast
Reed’s tickle fetish: how did she learn she had a tickle fetish? What was the process like of learning to talk about it more openly?
Reed’s other fetishes
What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?
The shame and embarrassment that can come with having a fetish
Florence’s fascination with lactation and whether it’s a kink or a fetish
How does Florence explore lactation without lactating?
Sucking kink
The ethics around consensual non-consent
Discussing consensual non-consent with a partner
Consensual non-consent in porn
Understanding the behind the scenes of porn
Teaching consent in sex education
How to find people to explore your kink or fetish with? (41:46)
FetLife and kink-friendly dating apps
Was being open about sex ever difficult for Florence or Reed? Was there ever a time when they didn’t want to or couldn’t talk about it? (47:24)
Where are Reed and Florence at with ethical non-monogamy?
Tips for people who maybe want to try ethical non-monogamy?
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MORE ABOUT FLORENCE AND REED (COME CURIOUS)
Reed and Florence are the co-founders of ComeCurious, one of the leading British sex and relationships media platforms. The platform was created with one mission, to get people having open conversations about SEX. Ultimately helping people have better understanding around themselves, their bodies and relationships with partners. In the 7 years ComeCurious has existed, the content has spread from Youtube to podcasts! Their award winning podcast F**ks Given has amassed a cult following, the Curious Fckers, spreading the sex conversation globally.
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