Do I Want to be an Intimacy Coordinator?, Solo Sex in Lockdown & Getting Married - End of Season 3 Q&A
We’re wrapping season 3 up with a q&a! Hannah answers your questions about the podcast, sex and relationships, and sex education as a career. She talks about which guest she’s learned the most from this season, how to find motivation, and future plans for the podcast! Plus, Hannah talks about finding time for solo sex during lockdown and how to get started masturbating for the first time.
Read the episode transcript here!
SHOW NOTES
Podcast questions:
COVID has meant recording interviews remotely with people around the world. Will you continue this when we return to normal or do you prefer the face to face interviews? (2:18)
Which episode/guest did you find the most informative? (03:55)
Have there been any guests that you wished you could have met in person for the podcast? (04:48)
Which episode are you most proud of and why? (05:23)
Are there any guests who you would love to have back on because you didn’t cover everything or because they could have input in more topics? (06:17)
I would love to listen to an episode about STI disclosure and stigma (07:42)
How do you stay motivated for every episode? I have a podcast but my episodes are so sporadic. (07:57)
Have you/will you talk about the intersections between queerness and autism as they commonly occur? (10:54)
Any plans to talk about ADHD and sex and relationships? (12:06)
What have you learned from guests that you have put into practice in your life? (12:32)
What’s the hardest thing about online interviews? What do you miss the most about irl ones? (13:49)
Sex and relationships questions:
I found the episode with Alexandra Hirst about the legal and financial situation in marriage and divorce eye-opening. As a person recently married, did this make you consider things in a different light? (15:27)
How do you distinguish between responsive desire, a weak accelerator, and being asexual? (15:50)
Tips for dealing with differing preferences for frequency of sex? (18:06)
How do you find time for solo sex during quarantine when both of you work from home? (18:56)
Big Mouth season 4! (19:44)
How does someone (female) who has never masturbated get started? (20:23)
Why does no one ever tell you that after someone has ejaculated inside you, you leak for ages after? (22:05)
Sex educator career questions:
When you talked to Ita about the role of an intimacy coordinator, could you see yourself doing this as a job in the future post-YouTube? (24:05)
Do you think that a sex educator can be asexual? (25:28)
USEFUL LINKS
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hannahwitton
Dr Anand Patel episode: https://doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/dranandpatel
Dr Karen Gurney episode: https://doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/drkarengurney
Kimberly Foster episode: https://doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/kimberlyfoster
Cameron Glover episode: https://doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/cameronglover
Yasmin Benoit episode: https://doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/yasminbenoit
Lisa Hallgarten episode: https://doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/lisahallgarten
Queerly Autistic by Erin Ekins: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/queerly-autistic-the-ultimate-guide-for-lgbtqia-teens-on-the-spectrum/9781787751712
Mind the Gap by Dr Karen Gurney: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/mind-the-gap-the-truth-about-desire-and-how-to-futureproof-your-sex-life/9781472267139
The Secret to Sexual Arousal video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PP8mnQ2tln8&t=1s
Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/come-as-you-are-the-bestselling-guide-to-the-new-science-that-will-transform-your-sex-life/9781925228014
Alexandra Hirst episode: https://doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/alexandrahirst
Big Mouth: https://www.netflix.com/title/80117038
Ita O’Brien episode: https://doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/itaobrien
Intimacy On Set guidelines: https://www.itaobrien.com/intimacy-on-set-guidelines.html
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